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Where is My True Love? Letting go of the “Dream” to Make Space for the Real Thing

on January 26, 2015

Let Me Reach with Kim Saeed

Hearts True Love

How long have you stayed with the Narcissist, waiting for them to change?  To go back to the person they were when you first met them?  Five months?  Five years?  Ten years?  More?

Unfortunately, no matter how they may try to convince you otherwise when you attempt to leave, they won’t change.  No matter how sincere it feels to you when they hoover.  Deep inside, you know this to be true.  Yet you’ve decided to give them another chance…a chance to prove that they are truly sorry for what they’ve done.

If your spouse/partner/fiancé truly had plans to change their abusive ways, you would have already witnessed sincere effort on their part.  Yet, you’ve again chosen to hang onto the dream, doing all the same things you’ve done before, but hoping for a different outcome.

This article isn’t a lecture on the definition of insanity (though you probably do feel…

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