Do you remember the first few months of your relationship? When the sparks were flying and you couldn’t keep your hands off of each other? But now, you find yourself going through the motions, no longer as excited as you were to see him/her, seemingly just passing time.
It doesn’t have to be that way.
Obviously, there are many reasons that some relationships fade over time, but one reason is often prevalent:
Comfort.
Comfort, I’ve always said, is the enemy of progress. It is also the enemy of romance.
Don’t get me wrong, being comfortable with someone is the very foundation of a healthy relationship, especially for women. If a woman feels uncomfortable around you, it doesn’t matter if you’re Channing Tatum, she’ll be running the other way.
Mutual comfort that causes you both to lose the desire to continue courting each other, however, can be the downfall.
When you…
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